Relationships

Lately, i've been witnessing a few broken and troubled relationships around me... why does one cheats? Aren't they matured enough to be serious in relationship? I mean at early to mid 20s. Don't they consider the other party's feelings? Does a human's love changed so fast...? And do human always give in to worldly temptations and cheat when given an opportunity? This is awfully sad, especially seeing my friends, broken and hurt. I could feel their pain, anger and bitterness. You gave your all for someone and he/she took it merely and just let you falls apart. Everything that you poured out, suddenly it's meaningless. What can I say, really? Who can explain these? Why cheat? Doesn't love means a lot? Doesn't it? If you're not serious, then don't. You're just gonna hurt someone. Won't hurting someone fills you with guilt? The worst thing to do is betray one's love. It's fragile. I've not been in a relationship yet and sometimes it really makes me wonder, if i'm confident in pursuing it. will my partner cheat on me? will my partner falls for another girl at some time?

At the same time, i somehow believe that knowing each other more can be a key to a strong relationship that lasts until the end. Both sides have to be serious. I guess... they cheat because they're not serious. But why play around? Maybe..when we're in our teens, we fool around but that's because we don't put our all in it. Now..grown-up, my friend gave her all to that guy and if in the first place he doesn't want it, then don't even try! Look for girls who just want to fool around as well! Readers, i'm not referring to guys as the one who cheats but most of my girl friends got cheated, i'm just giving it an example.

just be strong, my friends... they say you only meet the right one after one or two. i'm not sure if it works like that, does it mean my first one will not be the right one? haha. it's complicating, sometimes... i'm lovin this guy, and if he does love me back, will it...?

i could just believe God will bring me the right guy..yes He will. =)

p/s be tough girls, alright? make pain a rain, that falls and ends.